When Everything’s Great Except the Sex

He’s close with his ex-boyfriend and wants to date him again, but the sex needs work.

Why Some HIV-Positive People Don’t Disclose

An HIV-positive reader asks about disclosure at a sex party — a question that touches a raging debate among HIV activists.

Not a Top, Bottom, or Vers. Are You a Side?

Some gay and bi men don’t like anal sex. If you’re one of them, you’re not alone.

The Problem With Condoms

He can’t stay hard when he wears a condom. These are his options.

You Can’t Change Your Partner

He loves his boyfriend but wishes he’d give more attention to his body and spend more time in the gym.