Why Some HIV-Positive People Don’t Disclose

An HIV-positive reader asked me about disclosure at a sex party. My answer touches a raging debate among HIV activists.

Not a Top, Bottom, or Vers. Are You a Side?

Some gay and bi men don’t like anal sex. If you’re one of them, you’re not alone.

The Problem With Condoms

You struggle to stay hard when you put on a condom? Here’s what you should do.

You Can’t Change Your Partner

You love your boyfriend but wish he’d give more attention to his body. What can you do?

The Dealbreaker

Your partner of five years isn’t giving you sex — nor will he allow you to have sex with others. What do you do?

Read This Before Taking Anonymous Loads

Being a cumdump requires getting frequent STI testing and more. Here’s what you need to know.

How To Train Your Ass

Too tight? Is anal sex painful? No worries — you can train to become a better bottom.