Why Some HIV-Positive People Don’t Disclose

An HIV-positive reader asked me about disclosure at a sex party. My answer touches a raging debate among HIV activists.

The Problem With Condoms

You struggle to stay hard when you put on a condom? Here’s what you should do.

You Can’t Change Your Partner

You love your boyfriend but wish he’d give more attention to his body. What can you do?

The Dealbreaker

Your partner of five years isn’t giving you sex — nor will he allow you to have sex with others. What do you do?

How To Train Your Ass

Too tight? Is anal sex painful? No worries — you can train to become a better bottom.

Why Your Gag Fetish Feels Strange

You have a major gag fetish, but it’s embarrassing to ask someone to play with gags during sex. Why?

You Have To Work To Play

You have no sex experience, no confidence, and no clue where to begin. You have some work to do.

Getting Dirty

You’re watching scat porn online and it makes you feel ashamed. How should you feel about this?