Why Some HIV-Positive People Don’t Disclose

An HIV-positive reader is going to a sex party. When should he disclose his HIV status — and should he?

Not a Top, Bottom, or Vers. Are You a Side?

Some queer men don’t enjoy anal sex. Don’t worry, you’re not alone.

The Problem With Condoms

He can’t stay hard when he wears a condom. Because condoms suck.

How To Train Your Ass

His attempts at anal sex have been painful, and he wants to get better at it. Here’s how.

You Have To Work To Play

He has no sex experience, no confidence, and no clue where to start. He has some work to do.

What You Need To Know About Bug Chasing

They have some questions about bug chasing — the most tabooed fetish of all.

Clingy Love

He is new to sex and worried that he’ll get “clingy.”