Why Some HIV-Positive People Don’t Disclose

An HIV-positive reader asks about disclosure at a sex party — a question that touches a raging debate among HIV activists.

Not a Top, Bottom, or Vers. Are You a Side?

Some gay and bi men don’t like anal sex. If you’re one of them, you’re not alone.

The Problem With Condoms

He can’t stay hard when he wears a condom. These are his options.

How To Train Your Ass

His attempts at anal sex have been painful, and he wants to get better at it. Here’s how.

You Have To Work To Play

He has no sex experience, no confidence, and no clue where to start. He has some work to do.

What You Need To Know About Bug Chasing

They have some questions about bug chasing — the most tabooed fetish of all.

Clingy Love

He is new to sex and worried that he’ll get “clingy.”