Why Some HIV-Positive People Don’t Disclose

An HIV-positive reader asked me about disclosure at a sex party. My answer touches a raging debate among HIV activists.

Not a Top, Bottom, or Vers. Are You a Side?

Some gay and bi men don’t like anal sex. If you’re one of them, you’re not alone.

The Problem With Condoms

You struggle to stay hard when you put on a condom? Here’s what you should do.

How To Train Your Ass

Too tight? Is anal sex painful? No worries — you can train to become a better bottom.

You Have To Work To Play

You have no sex experience, no confidence, and no clue where to begin. You have some work to do.

What You Need To Know About Bug Chasing

Let me shed some light on the most tabooed fetish of all.

Clingy Love

You are new to sex and worried you’ll get clingy. Yes, you will — and you’re supposed to.