Why Some HIV-Positive People Don’t Disclose

An HIV-positive reader asked me about disclosure at a sex party. My answer touches a raging debate among HIV activists.

Not a Top, Bottom, or Vers. Are You a Side?

Some gay and bi men don’t like anal sex. If you’re one of them, you’re not alone.

The Problem With Condoms

You struggle to stay hard when you put on a condom? Here’s what you should do.

The Dealbreaker

Your partner of five years isn’t giving you sex — nor will he allow you to have sex with others. What do you do?

Read This Before Taking Anonymous Loads

Being a cumdump requires getting frequent STI testing and more. Here’s what you need to know.

How To Train Your Ass

Too tight? Is anal sex painful? No worries — you can train to become a better bottom.

What You Need To Know About Bug Chasing

Let me shed some light on the most tabooed fetish of all.

How To Be A Cumdump

I’ll cover the basics: ass prep, STI testing, sex drugs, and more.

Clingy Love

You are new to sex and worried you’ll get clingy. Yes, you will — and you’re supposed to.