Why Some HIV-Positive People Don’t Disclose

An HIV-positive reader asked me about disclosure at a sex party. My answer touches a raging debate among HIV activists.

Not a Top, Bottom, or Vers. Are You a Side?

Some gay and bi men don’t like anal sex. If you’re one of them, you’re not alone.

How To Train Your Ass

Too tight? Is anal sex painful? No worries — you can train to become a better bottom.

Getting Dirty

You’re watching scat porn online and it makes you feel ashamed. How should you feel about this?

How To Be A Cumdump

I’ll cover the basics: ass prep, STI testing, sex drugs, and more.

Clingy Love

You are new to sex and worried you’ll get clingy. Yes, you will — and you’re supposed to.