Why Some HIV-Positive People Don’t Disclose

An HIV-positive reader asks about disclosure at a sex party — a question that touches a raging debate among HIV activists.

Not a Top, Bottom, or Vers. Are You a Side?

Some gay and bi men don’t like anal sex. If you’re one of them, you’re not alone.

How To Train Your Ass

His attempts at anal sex have been painful, and he wants to get better at it. Here’s how.

Get Dirty

He enjoys scat porn, but it makes him feel ashamed.

How To Be A Cumdump

They have questions about taking anonymous loads. Here are the basics: ass prep, STI testing, and more.

Clingy Love

He is new to sex and worried that he’ll get “clingy.”