Not a Top, Bottom, or Vers. Are You a Side?

Some gay and bi men don’t like anal sex. If you’re one of them, you’re not alone.

You Can’t Change Your Partner

He loves his boyfriend but wishes he’d give more attention to his body and spend more time in the gym.

He learned that a guy he likes isn’t interested and only wants sex.

His partner of five years isn’t giving him sex — nor will he allow sex with others. What now?

He likes hardcore, “fight club” sex, thinks he’s incapable of “romantic” sex, and wants advice. Where is the problem?

His attempts at anal sex have been painful, and he wants to get better at it. Here’s how.

They have some questions about bug chasing — the most tabooed fetish of all.

He wants to start his own sex blog. Here’s my advice.

They have questions about taking anonymous loads. Here are the basics: ass prep, STI testing, and more.

He and his boyfriend are interested in a third guy. Here are six tips for triad (throuple) relationships.